Mother-In-Law Or Ghost

Relationships with mother-in-law for many of us can either be complex, shaky, risky, uncertain, or maybe they can be a loving, caring, mentoring experience.Whatever type our relationship is,We may ask why so many people have these insecure feelings about their mother-in-laws.Perhaps we just fear that we are just not good enough for their sons or perhaps it is the way they make us feel so uncomfortable around their children. But In most cases they are great help in a lot of relationships.

My relationship with my mother in law is always a “Roller Coster Ride “ no conclusion . As beginning We both were having little Ego clashes upon her Son ( Man of The House) Who is best for him? Best thing is Man of the House never ever came in between us it was always me and my mother-in-law.He is on good terms with My mother-in-law as well as with me clever move to get away from all the nonsense and  we main cheerleaders for the one man who techenically belongs to both of us.So we shake pom poms together for one man  .Every time it was nagging and I’m not as good as she is in managing house of course, it can’t be possible for a new comer comparatively a Experienced Player . But I never felt like losing my field I was trying every single time to impress my mother-in-law and trying to be like her because “SHE IS SO PERFECT AT HOUSE” nobody can beat her in any manner. This is what I like about her and my urge to learn from her to become like her was my dream from the day I entered this house.

One thing is sure I’m Still trying to impress her every single time and scared if she gets angry so here’s one episode I love to discuss one fine day we had Akhand Path Sahib at our place our duty was in the kitchen we mean all bhabhi’s, Sister-in-laws in the kitchen , we all were having so much of gossiping and laughing   on little little jokes even because this is the time when in get togethers we all get so close to each other we laugh a lot to discuss funny incidents from our life.

 Meanwhile it was Tea in making while we were talking and Laughing and it was not just tea . It was tea for 30-40 People means huge vessel for tea preparation on Gas . It was taking lots of time to get boil and it was taking huge time as usual due to huge quantity.

And suddenly My mother-in-law appeared like “ghost “from nowhere, we all got quite 

 and she started like still your tea is not ready everybody is waiting and path is about to finish what you all are doing just laughing   hahaha we all got so scared after her visit we just pour the unboiled tea into tea cups   and served that unready unboiled tea to the guests with effect of fear   till date whenever we all meet just remember this hilarious moment and laugh a lot   and my mother in law till date don’t know this happened.

However, most women would agree they are made stronger now by surviving every mother-in-law visit of their married life.

Some women have supportive mother in laws.It was mentoring experience for me I learnt a lot from my mother in law  in many ways.

Thank You Maa (Mother-In-Law),

Shilpy